Sharmila Dhankar: How a woman scripted Commonwealth Games history after surviving polio, abuse and poverty

From surviving childhood polio and rebuilding her life after an abusive marriage to becoming India's first Commonwealth Games para athletics gold medallist, Sharmila Dhankar has transformed unimaginable hardship into historic achievement.

Post Published By: Subhash Raturi
Updated : 1 August 2026, 5:49 PM IST
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New Delhi: Every champion has a story, but few are as extraordinary as that of Sharmila Dhankar. Long before she stood atop the Commonwealth Games podium draped in the Indian tricolour, the Haryana para athlete had already fought battles that no medal could ever truly capture. Childhood polio, crushing poverty, domestic abuse, social stigma and financial hardship marked different phases of her life, yet none succeeded in extinguishing her resolve. At the 2026 Commonwealth Games in Glasgow, Dhankar transformed decades of perseverance into sporting immortality, producing a season-best throw of 9.81 metres to win the women's F57 shot put gold and become the first Indian para athlete to claim a Commonwealth Games athletics gold medal.

Facing hardships from childhood

Born on August 15, 1986, in Chitrauli village of Haryana's Mahendragarh district, Dhankar was raised in a family where survival often took precedence over ambition. Her father worked as a small farmer while her visually impaired mother managed the household despite her own challenges. At the age of two, Dhankar contracted polio, leaving one of her legs permanently affected. Growing up with a disability in rural India, coupled with severe financial constraints, presented obstacles at every step, but they never diminished her determination to build a better future.

Life, however, reserved even harsher tests. Married at the age of 19, Dhankar endured years of physical and emotional abuse before taking the difficult decision to walk away from the relationship. Returning to her parents' home with her two daughters, she began rebuilding her life amid financial uncertainty and societal judgement. What appeared to be the end of one chapter eventually became the beginning of another.

Her toughest battle, however, came after marriage. Married at the age of 19, Dhankar endured years of physical and emotional abuse. In one of the darkest episodes of her life, she has publicly recalled that her first husband stripped her naked and threw her and her daughters out of their home. Homeless and with nowhere else to turn, she returned to her parents' house, determined to protect her children and rebuild her life despite crushing financial hardship and social stigma.

Finding Strength Again

Her fortunes changed after marrying Ajit Singh, whose faith in her abilities proved transformative. Encouraging her to pursue para athletics despite her age and disability, Singh helped Dhankar rediscover a dream she had never imagined possible. Unlike most elite athletes who enter structured training during childhood, Dhankar stepped into competitive sport only at the age of 34. Under the guidance of coach Tek Chand in Rewari, she immersed herself in the technical demands of shot put and discus, steadily evolving into one of India's most accomplished para throwers.

Competing in the F57 classification for athletes with lower-limb impairments in seated throwing events, Dhankar rapidly climbed the domestic ranks. She announced herself by winning gold at the Para National Championships while establishing a national record, performances that earned her a place on the international stage. At the 2022 Commonwealth Games in Birmingham, she narrowly missed a medal, finishing fourth despite registering a personal-best effort of 8.43 metres. Rather than allowing disappointment to define her, Dhankar used the experience as motivation, finishing fifth at the 2025 World Para Athletics Championships in New Delhi with a throw of 10.03 metres before adding a shot put gold and discus bronze at the 2026 Fazza International Para Athletics Championships in Dubai.

Late Start, Historic Gold: Everything fell into place at Glasgow

When the Commonwealth Games returned, Dhankar was ready to seize the moment. Producing her finest throw of the season, the 9.81-metre effort secured the gold medal and placed her in the history books as India's first Commonwealth Games para athletics champion. The landmark achievement also reflected India's growing influence in para athletics, with compatriot Shilpa K. Shyla eventually securing the bronze medal in the same event after a review of the final standings.

A Story Beyond Sport

The triumph in Glasgow was built on sacrifices that extended far beyond the training ground. Reports suggest Dhankar's family sold their house in Rewari and moved into rented accommodation to ensure she could continue training and competing at the highest level. It was a decision that underscored the unwavering belief her family had in her pursuit of excellence despite persistent financial challenges.

Dhankar's journey is far more than a tale of athletic success. It is a story of resilience triumphing over despair, of rebuilding a life after unimaginable hardship and of refusing to let circumstances dictate destiny. From surviving childhood disability and domestic abuse to rewriting Indian sporting history on one of the biggest multi-sport stages, she has become a symbol of perseverance and possibility. With the Paralympic cycle now firmly in her sights, Sharmila Dhankar has established herself not only as a Commonwealth Games champion but as one of the most inspiring figures in contemporary Indian sport.

Location :  New Delhi

Published :  1 August 2026, 5:49 PM IST

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